SPECIAL SESSION đ đ IN SEARCH OF A SUBMISSIVE AND OBEDIENT SLAVE TO EXPLORE OUR SEXUAL FANTASY.
Posted: Sat 04 May
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Iâm mistress alexia, Iâm looking for a loyal and serious submissive patter, my old submissive moved out of the country for business trip. What a good little slut you are for me. Are you going to be good for me? So wet/needy/sweet for me. Iâm looking forward  to hear from you.I have been mistress for more than 14 years now and I am an active  member of a group of dominant women in the city and all over the world.
I seek a lil lost kinky sub who will love honor worship serve and obey me that's in need of training discipline punishment pleasure love and guidance control protection I  love  giving oral and anal pleasures mixed with passionate kisses bondage and spanking.
I will not accept anything less than your absolute submission and trust, which I take quite seriously. I cannot wait to take total control of your life. I will train and take you to be the perfect sissy slut slave for me.Â
I am a caring and creative Mistress, with a wide range of interests. Often mischievous and inventive in my approach to kink, with a sadistic sense of humour and an open mind, finding allure in the most unusual and âweirdâ requests.
Letâs explore your fantasies together, whatever they are. Wouldnât you much rather find out in reality, then live another second wondering all that might be?
What is BDSM?
BDSM stands for Bondage, Domination, Submission and Masochism. Some people attribute other words to the acronyms - âspankingâ or âsadismâ for the S in particular and that works fine too but I prefer the words Iâve used. BDSM stories donât have to contain all these elements though.
There are three types of limits:
 Universal Limits: Things about which there is no question. It's not a choice; it's the law. Any sexual activity with children, animals, people mentally/physically unable to consent, or people who have withdrawn consent is always out of bounds.
Hard Limits: Things she will not do because she has personal/moral/health reasons and the limit is never going to change. For many women things like scat, urine drinking, unprotected sex with strangers, cutting, branding or permanent scarification are hard limits.
Soft Limits: Things she is saying she doesn't want to try or do, largely because she has never done them and she has a fear based response to them. After the relationship develops more trust and power some of these limits may be stretched and challenged.Once you have established her limits, you can proceed to come to an agreeable set of do's and don'ts, ideas and guiding philosophies to make her training and life with you successful.
Learning about the world of S&M has been an invaluable experience to me. I had to admit to myself that, viewed from the perspective of what I knew about the nature of the individual self, masochism puzzled me by flying in the face of everything that was rational about the nature of the human personality. People want to be happy and to avoid pain and suffering. They seek to maintain and increase their control over themselves and their surroundings. And they desire to maintain and increase their prestige, respect, and esteem. Viewed from the perspective of these three principles about the self, masochism is a startling paradox. The self is developed to avoid pain, but masochists seek pain. The self strives for control, but masochists seek to relinquish control. The self aims to maximize its esteem, butâ¨masochists deliberately seek out humiliation.
I heard stories of whips, canes, racks, cock-and-ball torture, dripping wax on naked skin, electronic devices designed to deliver just the right amount of pain, the difficulty of finding the right mistress, and the surprising number of âdungeonsâ that existed within a few block radius of my mid-town office. Time and again, men would talk of the frustration of being unable to entice their wives or partners, who found these sexual activities to be perverse, into engaging in the sexual behaviors that they most longed for. I suspected that there was a vast number of people who felt tremendous shame and isolation about masochistic submissive longings. I decided to check the clinical literature on masochism to better arm myself with some psychodynamic understanding of why these men, who so often felt shame- bound, were so keen to be dominated, hurt, tortured and humiliated by strong, dominate women. And I found out that  anyone who engages regularly in masochistic sex is mentally ill by definition. There is a long tradition of regarding masochism as the activity of mentally ill sick individuals. Freud described masochism as a perversion.  From that  moment I start the design process of your session, choose an outfit and prepare our play-space, to the way we finish our time together, I like ensuring each encounter you have with me feels special and fun.
For this, each time is carefully planned and tailored to fit your favourite fetishes and kinky needs, taking into account all that youâve told me about yourself.
Part of the thrill of BDSM is knowing that you are under my full control, that we will be delving into each and every one of your kinks, and over time pushing your limits (if you are brave enough for it!) and you will be released with a smile on your face and fond memories to remember as you walk down the street.
Making a training planÂ
âSubmissives fantasize Master's plan. One of the things that drives the desire of a submissive woman to serve is the freedom i finds in a slave. I am liberated from making the decisions and taking the responsibility for what happens.One of the things that drives the heart of a master is the desire to be the responsible one. His need to guide, to initiate and to bear both the responsibility and pride of a task well-done is what encourages him to continue with the effort. The basis of that power exchange is trust.Training is the period of time where the submissive partner learns to trust you. The more you have a clearly articulated plan for me training and your time together the easier it will be for me to relax and put yourself  in my hands.While training can seem unpredictable and challenging to a sub, you don't want it to become so overwhelming that Iâll  withdraws from you. The best way to help me is to share your plans with me up front. This helps me see you are following a well-known methodology and not just "making stuff up."If you are a younger (under 30) Dom, you definitely need to show you know what you're doing as there is a bias in the submissive world towards older, more experienced Doms.Sit down âwith your sub and explain the plan. Make sure you pick a clear start date and an absolute end date for the period of training. The recommended time for initial training is 2 weeks to 1 month of cohabitation, or 4 weeks to 8 weeks for session work.each session last 3 hours. Both the open and close date should be marked with a small ritual or ceremony (it can be a private one between you both, or one with friends) that shows a clear beginning and end.â And if you would choose a date and wont meet up it would be better no to text me as I hate disappointment and time wastingÂ
âTraining time is not what the rest of the relationship is going to be like. It is just the time when the patterns and expectations of the relationship are magnified in order for them to become a life habit. Knowing there is an end to training time will be a help to both of you because it is a tiring phase when you must both be vigilant and address every joy and error.â
Physical Submission
âYour submissive is turning her body and will over to you in every way. The two methods to solidify that gift are physical and sexual submission. Physical refers to your domination of her body as a vessel of her mind and will. Sexual is the domination of her body for pleasure and intimate connection. Spanking is the primary way you will teach and control your sub during training.â
Other training involvesÂ
âCutting, branding or tattooing.â
âPony or pet training â
Humiliation and Objectification
Public practices
Domestic Service
Chastity
Intercourse and Orgasm Denialâ
Anal serviceÂ
Oral serviceÂ
Sexual submissionÂ
Erotic  spankingÂ
Maintenance spankingÂ
Punishment spankingÂ
Medical play is one of my specialities and I
have a dedicated fetish clinic called the 'White Room' where I perform weird and cruel
operations and examinations on visiting fetish patients.
Iâm also into toilet play  ,feminization,orgasm denial, worship & face sitting,femdom worship, bondage, chastity, strap on , role play, & feet ..
Other Fetishes You May Wish To Indulge In
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Anal Play
Armpit/Sweat Fetish
Bastinado
Boot Fetish
Blackmail
Breath Play/Asphyxiation
Ballbusting
Bondage
Caging/Confinement
Chastity
Cock Milking
Cross Dressing
Canning
Cock & Ball Torture
Couples
Castration Fantasy
Choking
Corporal Punishment
Degradation
Double/Multi Domme
Domestic Servitude
Dinner Dates
E-Stim/Electric Play
Edging
Financial Domination
Forced Feminization
Foot Fetish/Worship
Face Slapping
Flogging/Whipping
Gags
Gas Masks
Hand/Nails Fetish
Humiliation
Human furniture
High Heels
Keyholding
Lingerie/Latex/Leather
Leg Worship
Mummification
Mind Fuck/Play
Needle Play/Piercings
Nipple Torture
Orgasm Control/Denial
Physical Humiliation
Pony Play
Pet/Puppy Play
Post Orgasm Torture
Rubber Fetish
Role Play
Ruined Orgasms
Rope
Shoe Fetish/Worship
Slave Training
Spanking/Paddling
Strap-on
Scratching
Shopping Trips
Slut Training
Spitting
Stockings/Suspenders
Sadistic Domination
Sensual Domination
Silk/Satin
Small Penis Humiliation
Sissification
Suspensin
Toilet humiliation (drinking of Pee and poop)
Tickling
Tie and Tease
Trampling
Verbal Humiliation
Wax Play
Whipping
Letâs talk about tributeÂ
A tribute is not a payment We need to get something straight. A tribute is a form of showing respect and admiration to your superior, it is not a payment for a session
or even my time. Anything you get as a result of a tribute is a bonus. Tribute to please me. Tribute because your cash belongs in my wallet. Tribute because my needs, are more important than yours. Don't tribute because you want to get off and disappear. You are not paying me to cum, you're paying me to add some meaning to your pathetic life.
Hopefully no one will know that you have secretly been visiting your mistress as my session are discreet, conducted indoors in a warm and well maintained area. Marks are sometimes unavoidable, especially in bondage and cp games I do involve in enemas and abdl however I do not purposely leave marks, get involved in actual bodily harm or practice scenes which may put you in hospital all my working apparatus is clean. If that hasnât twisted your arm I donât know what will, so pop in and say hello, I donât bite! Unless youâre into that đ oh and every video is included! Do not come to my DMs and try to dom me. Iâm not into that itâs creepy as hell and you will be blocked for even trying. If you ever send me pics without my permission or I noticed youâre just trying to waste my time you will be blocked immediately. Make sure youâre very serious before you text me. Thank you.
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